Picky Eaters–Part 3: Strategies That Work
Pediatrician Dr. Horlick explores picky eating - how common it is, what it means, and how genetics and environment shape kids’ food choices
Written by , M.D., Clinical Assistant Professor, Pediatrics
ý Multispecialty Clinic
Parents often ask what they can do—and fortunately, there are many strategies that help, and that are supported by research. These align closely with what pediatricians recommend:
- Create a positive social experience at meals: no fighting over food, no pressure to “clean the plate.”
- Encourage repeated exposures. A child may need 10–15 tries before accepting a new food. Keep offering in different forms-for example, cooked, raw, in sauces or baked goods.
- Offer a wholesome, wide variety of healthy foods consistently at home.
- Minimize snacks so children arrive at meals hungry.
- Practice parent modeling; eat the foods you want your child to eat.
- Remove distractions (screens, toys) during meals.
- Make food fun: use colorful plating, dips, and let kids explore new foods in playful ways.
- Involve children in shopping, planning, and cooking to build curiosity and investment.
- Provide choices (“carrots or cucumbers?”) to give children some control.
- Always include at least one “safe” food on the plate.
- Avoid short-order cooking; serve one family meal.
This article was originally published in the January 2026 issue of magazine.
References
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- Nas Z, Herle M, Kininmonth AR, et al. Nature and nurture in fussy eating from toddlerhood to early adolescence: findings from the Gemini twin cohort. J Child Psychol Psychiatry. 2024;66(2):241-252. doi:10.1111/jcpp.14053
- Children’s Hospital of Orange County. CHOC Health Library.
- Institute of Medicine. Dietary Reference Intakes for Water, Potassium, Sodium, Chloride, and Sulfate. Washington, DC: The National Academies Press; 2005. doi:10.17226/10925
- Rethy J. HealthyChildren.org. American Academy of Pediatrics. Published July 26, 2024.
- Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia. CHOP Newsroom. Published April 15, 2025.
This article is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider for questions about a medical or health condition.